It's quite all right. I've lost something too.

[Several things actually.]

And I completely understand not wanting to share what those things are with strangers.

[She gets it! Though she's pretty sure they're being quiet about it for very very different reasons.

Also maybe she should mention those somethings might be able to come back, but she's not really sure how that all works yet, so there's the dilemma of what if she says it and it doesn't happen? That would be terrible.]