"I entirely understand." Huaisang's smile is warm and sympathetic, and he nods his understanding. "I was a community leader back home, I know how it can seem like tending to the needs of others becomes your entire life. I hope you will take time to care for yourself, too. It's important to tend your own emotional garden so that it's always blossoming with plenty of love to give away."

He bites his lip briefly, almost shy. "May I invite you over for a traditional tea ceremony from my homeland? It would be my pleasure to teach you, and it's such a soothing ceremony."